tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post3140669715608971631..comments2023-10-21T06:09:27.793-05:00Comments on ..Lola B's HAS MOVED to kaseybuick.com: life defining moments...Kaseyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15629347779737137237noreply@blogger.comBlogger89125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-74946130313277233862009-06-06T08:43:32.877-05:002009-06-06T08:43:32.877-05:00I had this happen from a friend in college. It bro...I had this happen from a friend in college. It broke my heart. It took me a couple of weeks to accept her friend request. She just hurt me so much.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07874897254332872367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-37323079988132065412009-06-05T16:29:08.994-05:002009-06-05T16:29:08.994-05:00listen to your heart. really listen. it will tel...listen to your heart. really listen. it will tell you what to do.Nancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17921346141886139245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-80751217932232073202009-06-03T10:37:09.339-05:002009-06-03T10:37:09.339-05:00your home is truly beautiful.
your blog is truly ...your home is truly beautiful.<br /><br />your blog is truly wonderful!georgia b.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15482885077943093475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-61551562010970047162009-06-02T19:13:05.633-05:002009-06-02T19:13:05.633-05:00I say your home looks great on your beautiful blog...I say your home looks great on your beautiful blog and on the one I just peeked at:)<br /><br /><br />:) Anxious to hear what you do..Good luck~! Best~ MoniqueLa Table De Nanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04358539954508050792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-78646338354686965292009-06-02T18:41:45.063-05:002009-06-02T18:41:45.063-05:00OMG.
I thought I was the only one.
I just can't ...OMG. <br />I thought I was the only one.<br />I just can't let it go.<br />I don't dwell on it of course.<br />But it hurt.<br />Badly.<br />I can't do it.<br />I know that I can't do it.<br />And I don't want to.<br />I see thier names on facebook.<br />They are friends with my friends.<br />When I see thier names I am annoyed.<br />I don't want to be annoyed any time I open my facebook.<br />Good luck!Scarlett Fiona Reedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05789624320887075687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-84430387453049883152009-06-02T16:57:10.538-05:002009-06-02T16:57:10.538-05:00I didn't read what everyone else said, but this is...I didn't read what everyone else said, but this is what I say: do whatever you'd advise one of your kids to do. I find that when I look at a situation as if I were teaching my kid how to do the right thing while remaining true to himself, sometimes that is the best advice I can give to myself too.Christine--RHPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14209880537597263440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-86760312382146175082009-06-01T06:33:15.391-05:002009-06-01T06:33:15.391-05:00Good morning Kasey :)
First off the feature on yo...Good morning Kasey :)<br /><br />First off the feature on your house was wonderful! I covet your sense of style.<br /><br />Second... 82 comments here? Honey, don't even start with me LOL<br /><br />Thirdly, I had a horrible time in school because of girls like that. My best friend dumped me for the popular crowd and hung out with me secretly. I was such a dork, I put up with it. Anyway, yes you were young, but I think people no matter how old are the same basic person underneath. If she treated you badly then, she might do it even now. It's really up to you. Me? I don't talk to anyone from my past life and it's the exact reason I don't join facebook. It brings up the past and I'm not fond of mine.<br /><br />xoxo,<br />rueRuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18127064683340688898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-38796502144287970032009-05-31T16:42:28.532-05:002009-05-31T16:42:28.532-05:00It's what feels right to you. I try to forgive and...It's what feels right to you. I try to forgive and forget, but there are a few grudges that I hold and will continue to hold- because some things cannot be made up. <br /><br />If she wants to be a real friend, then maybe it's fair to let her try. Sincerity goes a long way. If she's just popping in to say hi, just because, then perhaps she should keep on going about her business. <br /><br />I think the important thing is to end each day feeling like you came out on top :) Sometimes we achieve that by taking the higher road, and sometimes by standing our ground.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14038243684683702349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-80034840775407029992009-05-29T23:19:09.499-05:002009-05-29T23:19:09.499-05:00Its totally up to you & since its based on you...Its totally up to you & since its based on your feelings, there is no wrong answer.<br />Facebook is strange. I was the weird girl in high school because I lived overseas & then we moved to a small town that was a bit behind the times & people made fun of me for my weird clothes, etc.<br />Zoom 25 years later.....love myself but now lots of those same people coming out of the woodwork. Some I say yes, some no BUT and this is a big BUT... there are 2 ways to use Facebook. I use it to keep in contact with the people I care about whom I can't speak to every week.I get a blurb, a photo & a laugh. I like it this way.<br />Some people just friend every single person they ever met & meet.<br />Deep inside I think you already know. Besides aren't you a bit curious how their life turned out??? And you can always tell her to go away or block if she's still just as immature because children can be cruel but not everyone grows out of it.<br />Sorry that was so long.<br />Glad I found you & good luck!!!Aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04604123003856840475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-85617302226647621882009-05-29T16:51:53.647-05:002009-05-29T16:51:53.647-05:00Great photos of your house!!!! Yeah,I'm on the fen...Great photos of your house!!!! Yeah,I'm on the fence about joining facebook because of all the people that crawl out of the wood work!!! LOL I am kind of at the point where the past is the past and I want to keep grammar school /high school friends there!!!! Saragoddessof4https://www.blogger.com/profile/07329045486924544092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-32245088210463152652009-05-29T15:27:36.899-05:002009-05-29T15:27:36.899-05:00I say accept her request. You never know what nic...I say accept her request. You never know what nice thing may come of this.Kaseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01328079851586687615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-35794445084294543302009-05-29T15:24:41.567-05:002009-05-29T15:24:41.567-05:00your house is so warm and charming! i love it!
as...your house is so warm and charming! i love it!<br /><br />as for the old friend issue, i've had my own (it was high school). at this point you have a great life, water under the bridge and not worth it to hold onto it. with that said, you don't have to be her best friend either. good luck, xoAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10485031464509205031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-73714813603693460692009-05-29T11:20:34.478-05:002009-05-29T11:20:34.478-05:00Middle school is terrible...almost evil...I say gi...Middle school is terrible...almost evil...I say give her another chance. I did things that I'm not proud of when I was 13, but I've grown up...lots...good luck with whatever your decide :)Charity Wattshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08663022677160746347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-8221977297299596322009-05-29T06:32:46.006-05:002009-05-29T06:32:46.006-05:00accept her then dump her!!! was that mean of me?accept her then dump her!!! was that mean of me?tracihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16759235108938139989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-44369234811117025012009-05-29T05:47:12.282-05:002009-05-29T05:47:12.282-05:00Loved your home tour, Kasey. I personally stay awa...Loved your home tour, Kasey. I personally stay away from Facebook - my blogs take up enough of my time :)Zita - Mlle Magpiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17150406089829095597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-35320814352849002422009-05-29T02:25:20.714-05:002009-05-29T02:25:20.714-05:00Ack...Junior HIgh. Boy can I relate. Girls can be ...Ack...Junior HIgh. Boy can I relate. Girls can be soooo mean. I dread having to watch my daughter go through that phase of life.<br /><br />Follow your heart. Do what feels right for you. I'm certainly not the person I was when I was 13. It's Facebook...you don't have to hang out together. In the least, she'll see how fabulous you are my dear. xoxoSuzanne : : S.HOPtalkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04193326681679699850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-79997307224311186172009-05-29T01:41:30.780-05:002009-05-29T01:41:30.780-05:00Hi Kasey,
congratulations! Your home is absolutely...Hi Kasey,<br />congratulations! Your home is absolutely one of the most beautiful I ever seen! I really love your style!<br /><br />Have a wonderful weekend my friend!<br />FedericaFEDERICAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04512867502233084057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-7665864789042696462009-05-29T00:23:01.991-05:002009-05-29T00:23:01.991-05:00I think we all have childhood experiences that sca...I think we all have childhood experiences that scar us for life. I depend how you react to his "friend" is really how you feel about her now. are you still angry? curious? neutral? figure that out first and work from there.trishiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00836141363242482379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-81073800091566958772009-05-28T23:33:15.732-05:002009-05-28T23:33:15.732-05:00I can relate too...i was dumped by my bestie in mi...I can relate too...i was dumped by my bestie in middle school. i made new friends but it still was hurtful. I suggest you proceed with caution. love your home and your style Kasey! ErinErinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02380657625519281004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-52700901922241542472009-05-28T22:55:47.451-05:002009-05-28T22:55:47.451-05:00Congrats on the home feature. On the Facebook top...Congrats on the home feature. On the Facebook topic, I was also recently contacted on Facebook by someone who hurt me in the past...I thought it for a few days and then finally accepted the FB friend request. It has actually been a blessing. We have been able to move past our issues. GO on...Accept her!Marci @All Things Wonderfulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07604034514330500189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-63131055291409184782009-05-28T22:03:30.719-05:002009-05-28T22:03:30.719-05:00Loved your house. I wanted to just jump in and st...Loved your house. I wanted to just jump in and stay awhile. Beautiful...really!!<br /><br />I would be nice to the friend and just see where it goes. I believe you can never have too many friends, but really good ones don't come by often enough. Junior high was a long time ago:) Thank God!!!Farmgirl Paintshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17205054615599523192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-19990709003943492922009-05-28T21:56:06.529-05:002009-05-28T21:56:06.529-05:00love the house tour. I have been reading your blog...love the house tour. I have been reading your blog and checking out your boutique for quite awhile. I had to finally set up a blog so I could comment on all the neat things you do with your pictures, house and Lola's Boutique.<br />Boy oh boy the friend thing is tough. <br /><br />what hurts us in our formative years stays with us forever.<br />I guess I am suspicious of why now out of the blue does this person want back in your life??<br /><br />You are successful, have a great blog and a wonderful business.susannah in iowahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10424309672441306443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-9870158892018273532009-05-28T20:54:12.956-05:002009-05-28T20:54:12.956-05:00Forgiveness is an amazing thing...for your soul, n...Forgiveness is an amazing thing...for your soul, not hers. <br /><br />We have all let others down.Cathyhttp://breathless-expectation.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-76465458089233980272009-05-28T20:33:37.560-05:002009-05-28T20:33:37.560-05:00I love the house of course!! There were some pictu...I love the house of course!! There were some pictures I hadn't seen yet. Lovely!<br />As for the friend and facebook thing. I personally would pass. Been there done that and yes people change (sometimes) but I have found that most of the awful (two faced)girls I knew in high school are still pretty awful. One of them was actually in my wedding and we saw each other for the first time in like 10 years not to long ago at our kids orthodontist and I asked her if her and another friend of ours (they still see each other/also in my wedding) would like to get together and catch up and she literally looked at me like I just asked if she would carry Frank and I's next child!! It was like NO! So I said OOOOOkay. Someone has some issues still and it's not me. And we really lost contact because I moved to New York not some big blow out. Although I did see her right after I had Tyler and she acted a little strange then. It was like she just wanted all the information to gossip about me. No one ever thought Frank and I would last. When I didn't have the gossip worthy stories to tell I guess she got bored with me. Some relationships are just not meant to last. I was so happy when high school was over. I am not about to go back. Good luck;)Andrea Villarrealhttp://freckledstar.typepad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1657464649079822028.post-79034108164170120142009-05-28T19:43:02.321-05:002009-05-28T19:43:02.321-05:00Boy that's a tough one. The harsh side of me says...Boy that's a tough one. The harsh side of me says no don't accept, she doesn't even seem to feel bad about what she did (and I do think 13 is old enough to be held accountable, at least to some extent, on how we treat others and the consequences of our actions), but alas I have learned that life is about forgiveness, without it none of us would get very far...she should be so lucky to have an amazing friend like you!<br />Ttraceynoreply@blogger.com